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Another famous Beatle’s hit claimed “All you need is
love.” While the Beatles made a lot of
money off that proclamation, I would have to say I disagree with them. Too many marriages today are ending in divorce
because love alone is not enough. Yes,
love is vital, especially for the wife, but we have missed a very important
part of the marital equation.
What do I mean? We
believe that according to Ephesians 5:33, love is not enough! In this passage, Paul is exhorting the men to
love their wives, but he doesn’t tell the wives to love their husbands. Instead, he exhorts the wives to respect their husbands. Could this be the missing ingredient in all
those marriages that end in divorce?
We believe it is, based on God’s Word as well as scientific
research. That’s why Sarah and I embarked on a mission over 10 years ago to get
this message to the world through our Love & Respect marriage conferences.
Many of the couples who attend our conferences have good
marriages. So why do they attend? Because they invest the time, effort, and
finances to maintain a satisfying and stable marriage.
I love what Solomon said: "Buy truth... get wisdom and
instruction and understanding" (Proverbs 23:23). One commentator said,
"Buying the truth suggests spending whatever energy or financial resources
are necessary to acquire truth..." (Bible Knowledge Commentary).
Buy truth? Yes. You did for your formal education every time
you wrote out a tuition check! And this is why I take just a little issue with
the song, “Can’t Buy Me Love.”
Obviously, I agree with the premise, but I also know that what is
important in life is worth investing in…even financially.
Does this mean anyone who buys truth becomes wise? Solomon
addressed that point. “Why should fools have money in hand to buy wisdom, when
they are not able to understand it?" (Proverbs 17:16 TNIV). A commentator wrote, “A fool is so simple he
thinks he can buy wisdom. He comes with money in hand, but fails to realize he
lacks the one resource necessary for gaining wisdom: a genuine, heartfelt
desire for it” (BKC).
Not everyone who buys truth becomes wise. We must also
invest the time and energy to apply the truth we’ve paid to receive. Will you join us at a Love & Respect Marriage Conference and find out how to apply this TRUTH from God’s Word? During these financially tough times many who
attend the Love and Respect marriage conference profoundly impress me. These
people are making sure their marriages do not die. They intend to experience
marital harmony, enjoy the marital journey, and pursue happiness together. They
are declaring, "Our marriage matters to us. We are committed to investing
in the longest lasting earthly institution that God created. We made a vow for
richer or for poorer. Even though finances are tough this is one investment we
will not neglect."
We are excited to rev up our fall conference schedule in
less than a month! Will you join us at a
Love & Respect Live or Video Conference?
It just might save your marriage!
And that would be worth the investment indeed.
Check out our schedule and we hope to see you there!
1 comment:
Everything you say is so true. That our relationship first must be completely to God first. When we marry and become the one-flesh that God state 'let no man separate', we have that covenant with God. God is and always will be part of that relationship.
My husband within the last year said to me "only healthy marriages attend these kinds of workshops." .. Well, I respectfully differ on opinion. Because, when life happens and we forget to place GOD first in our marriage, the respect and love becomes strained.
Personally, I would love to attend your conference with my husband. And, I pray without ceasing to God that HE works through my husband to see the truth in God's will... God Bless and thank you for your inspiration and truth that comes from our most gracious and loving Lord....
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