tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2792307722868485438.post9078137664944070411..comments2023-12-23T15:44:16.012-05:00Comments on .: FAQ: Things are getting worse! What now?Emerson and Sarahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17974647219596498454noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2792307722868485438.post-533090869528918282014-01-01T09:44:37.696-05:002014-01-01T09:44:37.696-05:00GOD WORKSGOD WORKSAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2792307722868485438.post-27601633632213034412013-04-19T06:05:51.338-04:002013-04-19T06:05:51.338-04:00BS. If you want to work on your marriage work wit...BS. If you want to work on your marriage work with the person, not with a bible. Find out what is happening in his/her head. Seek professional advice (not from a pastor, but from someone who has actually studied psychology) If I followed the bible's advice, I would had stoned my wife years ago.<br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2792307722868485438.post-20695083145159689782013-04-18T20:21:09.985-04:002013-04-18T20:21:09.985-04:00im working on that issue of respect no matter what...im working on that issue of respect no matter what, but my husband has been a non-mover for years even when i got on his lap and begged forgiveness for not showing him Christ... even though his lack of leadership financially and acts of love towards me are seriously lacking, while for 30+ years he has always needed huge amount of intimacy. Usually what I get from him is a blank stare, and I do Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2792307722868485438.post-1025423549657268022012-03-21T11:13:09.315-04:002012-03-21T11:13:09.315-04:00I thank God for Dr Eggerichs wisdom and books!
I ...I thank God for Dr Eggerichs wisdom and books! <br />I read with interest the Blog on "things are getting worse, what now?" and I smiled because this is what exactly happened to my unfaithful husband who was so deeply entrenched in his emotional infidelity. he claimed there is no more passion between us, and he is just keeping this marriage because he obey God. He won't do anything Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2792307722868485438.post-8316405054962734702012-02-24T12:47:41.099-05:002012-02-24T12:47:41.099-05:00I totally agree with Emerson here. Especially abo...I totally agree with Emerson here. Especially about trusting what is for real and responding negatively. I had this happen to me where after not feeling loved for a long period of time all of a sudden my spouse did something that was very loving to me. And instead of feeling good.. it hurt..a lot! Unfortunately I responded out of my pain instead of trying to see his actions as love. As I Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com