tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2792307722868485438.post2749299536600344521..comments2023-12-23T15:44:16.012-05:00Comments on .: Swim baby, swim! (By Joy Eggerichs, Emerson's daughter)Emerson and Sarahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17974647219596498454noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2792307722868485438.post-10315014504723768152010-04-13T02:50:25.372-04:002010-04-13T02:50:25.372-04:00My husband was into porn, strip clubs, hired a pri...My husband was into porn, strip clubs, hired a private stripper in a brothel, tried to start a relationship witha girl at his work. Secretly skyped and called his old girlfriend, we have been married 16 years. All this without me knowing.<br /><br />The first time I discovered strange numbers to sex calls I confronted him, he said he was curious. calls to his former lover were hours in Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2792307722868485438.post-18268236815263384002010-03-05T14:56:40.752-05:002010-03-05T14:56:40.752-05:00Was passing through the L&R site looking for d...Was passing through the L&R site looking for divorce resources (3 months into a divorce), reading over the blog when your post struck a nerve: ultimatums. <br /><br />I gave my christian wife two when half a year of lies and infidelity were uncovered: make drastic work schedule change and get a christian mentor. She had other ideas for me as well such as move out.<br /><br />After she filed bearmoxhttp://www.ask.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2792307722868485438.post-23887594121736554112010-02-18T19:05:46.104-05:002010-02-18T19:05:46.104-05:00Anonymous,
Your heart is in the right place. The ...Anonymous,<br /><br />Your heart is in the right place. The things you are dealing with are not fair and are very hurtful. I hope that you have gotten to the rewarded cycle and that is helping you in this season. <br /><br />For Shanon, <br /><br />Remember, things have the ability to change. Focus on what you are called to do, not what you want your husband to do. Keep living in a manner that Joy Eggerichshttp://www.joyeggerichs.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2792307722868485438.post-35882469218474943152010-02-15T18:12:10.305-05:002010-02-15T18:12:10.305-05:00My husband and I are starting this book and I am ...My husband and I are starting this book and I am not sure how to do this. What the book suggests. I want to be all the things listed in there that God wants of me but doing it knowing my husband will not do his part is hard. We are not faced with not understanding eachother as he would like to believe. He is into porn, other women and lying about everything from money to what he did that day. IAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2792307722868485438.post-50725536666503873552010-02-12T01:20:17.924-05:002010-02-12T01:20:17.924-05:00Newly wedded blisslessness
I got married 08-09. H...Newly wedded blisslessness <br />I got married 08-09. Here it is 6 months later and I wish I never married him. Harsh, right? I'm sorry - but I need to be blunt right now - I need to say those things that I think and feel but wouldn't dare share with him directly. But, now what?<br /><br />I read the Christian self help books - Changes that Heal, But I didn't want a Divorce and Shanon Phttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14058505355959220959noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2792307722868485438.post-90153222207586795622010-02-03T23:04:42.426-05:002010-02-03T23:04:42.426-05:00I love that you wrote, "Christians--do you lo...I love that you wrote, "Christians--do you love people enough to point them towards obedience and truth or do you..."<br /><br />Sometimes, it is scary to lovingly speak obedience and truth, not knowing how the person will react (or even if your friendship will continue afterwards), but that is what a true friend & Christian must do!HDhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14876008469631997287noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2792307722868485438.post-77210742503145848562010-01-30T13:57:17.111-05:002010-01-30T13:57:17.111-05:00Great post! This is something our generations defi...Great post! This is something our generations definitely needs to hear! Thanks for sharing, Joy!Torihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13798501856677168564noreply@blogger.com